Comfort or Success?

                                    

Why don’t most people succeed when they are working for it. They are going to work regularly, meeting their responsibilities towards their family, and their friends? They are following a code of conduct but nothing exciting happens to them constantly, nothing thrills their mind and body permanently. They need motivation from outside, to fill their life with life, to give them what they lack in spite of doing all what they need to. They are putting in their sincere efforts but still perplexed and dismayed.  In fact, they are chained in their comfort zones of their hard life, their mind has drawn a circle in all that labor for them. Which is really really hard to break without consistent and out of the way efforts.                                        

When you help somebody within your limits, when you love someone within your limits, when you are putting in as much efforts as always or as much your mind, body or tolerance allows, you are living in a comfort zone. Because you are not stretching beyond your limits, because you don’t have to go all out in doing something good to somebody else or to yourself, you are in your comfort zone sweetheart.

What are the limits of your comfort zone? Accomplishment and success always remain outside your comfort zone. If you have dreams to fulfill. If you want to accomplish something, you need to get uncomfortable. My friends sometimes people get out of their hides of comfort for the period of time and get caught by dejection because they do not go too far, they have doubts in their minds, they get tired and turn back to the same old boring life they hate living.  Because they demand a time limit when they would reach their destination. My dears! It is not about a week, a month, or a year, it is about until you win. You do not have to stop though it takes you out of the range of your tolerance and endurance.

People who are not an inspiration to their children their peers are those who refuse to stretch out their efforts. They compromise with their own comfort zone. They feel safe at first for some years, but as the time goes by, it starts creating distress and regrets in their life for not doing what they could have, would have, or should have. The choice is yours my dear friends. Both the ways are uncomfortable; One in the biggening and the other in the end. Choose wisely.         

Kashif Moon